Australian singer Firerose has publicly accused her ex-husband, Billy Ray Cyrus, of “narcissistic abuse” in a candid TikTok video. This revelation sheds light on the tumultuous nature of their brief marriage, which began in October 2023 and ended just seven months later, with their divorce finalized in 2024. The artist’s claims come amidst a backdrop of ongoing legal disputes, with both parties contesting allegations of abuse.
In the TikTok video, shared on December 4, Firerose, whose real name is Johanna Rosie Hodges, reflects on her experience, warning her younger self about the dangers of being involved with an older partner. She included a poignant message: “In your 20s you’ll meet a 49-year-old man who convinces you you’re his soulmate… It is very important you don’t believe him.” This statement has resonated widely, sparking discussions across social media.
Firerose’s message extends beyond her personal narrative. She emphasizes solidarity with other survivors of narcissistic abuse, stating, “If you’ve survived narcissistic abuse, you’re not alone.” Her video describes the commonalities in the experiences of many abuse survivors, including feelings of control, isolation, and manipulation.
Despite the serious nature of her allegations, Firerose concludes her post with an uplifting note, encouraging others to recognize their strength and the reality of love, even in the face of abuse. She stated, “But I promise, God sees everything and there is a light at the end of the tunnel.”
This isn’t the first time Firerose has publicly addressed her relationship with Cyrus. In an interview with The Sunday Telegraph’s Stellar magazine in October 2024, she expressed regret about her past choices, saying she would have advised her younger self to “run in the opposite direction and never look back.” She described a gradual withdrawal from family and friends during the relationship, attributing it to Cyrus’s protective nature.
Firerose alleged that as their relationship progressed, she felt increasingly isolated, claiming Cyrus warned her against public appearances. She recounted his words: “You’re a Cyrus now. You can’t be going to church. You can’t be going to public places where people could follow you home. You’re going to be murdered.” Her court filings also detail claims of “extreme verbal, emotional and psychological abuse,” expressing fear for her safety during the divorce process.
Conversely, Cyrus has presented a starkly different narrative in his own legal documents. He alleges that he was a victim of physical, verbal, and emotional abuse, claiming Firerose attempted to isolate him from his family and interfered with his relationships, particularly with his daughters. He further accused her of trying to control his career and mishandling his finances post-separation, allegations that Firerose has denied.
The situation has been complicated by Cyrus’s new relationship with actor Elizabeth Hurley, which has attracted considerable media attention. The couple has appeared together at various award events, marking a new chapter in Cyrus’s life.
For Firerose, the intent behind her latest video is clear: she seeks to reach out to individuals who may feel as isolated and confused as she once did. Her message serves as a reminder of the resources available for those in distress.
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence or needs support, help is available. In Australia, contact Lifeline at 13 11 14, or reach out to 1800 RESPECT at 1800 737 732 for assistance.
