24 October, 2025
nathan-cleary-shares-aspirations-for-fatherhood-amid-career-focus

Nathan Cleary, the star of Australian rugby league, has expressed a heartfelt desire to become a father, echoing the sentiments of his partner, Mary Fowler. While celebrating his achievements on the field, Cleary acknowledges a significant aspect of life that remains unfulfilled: fatherhood. He reflects on the joy his teammates, including Isaah Yeo and Dylan Edwards, experience as parents, a milestone he has yet to reach.

During a recent appearance on the Keegan and Company podcast, Cleary revealed his aspirations to start a family with Fowler, who is also an accomplished athlete. Fowler discussed her dreams of raising children together, possibly including adoption, and envisioning a life filled with animals and a garden. Despite this shared dream, the couple faces challenges due to their demanding sports careers, which often keep them on opposite sides of the world.

Balancing Ambitions and Relationships

As the Ashes series opener approaches in London, Cleary shared his thoughts on fatherhood. “That’s probably my biggest goal in life – to one day be a father,” he stated. Yet, he recognizes the timing is not right as both he and Fowler are focused on their respective sports. “We’re both in the middle of our sporting journeys and enjoying that,” he said, adding that the dream of family will have to wait.

In London, Cleary finds himself in the spotlight, with advertisements featuring him alongside English player Herbie Farnworth. Yet, to many in the city, he is simply known as Mary’s boyfriend. “Someone said to me today, ‘I love your girlfriend more,’” Cleary laughed, highlighting the attention Fowler receives for her talent as a member of the Matildas.

While Cleary’s family, including his father Ivan, mother Bec, and brother Jett, will be in attendance to support him during the game at Wembley Stadium, Fowler will not be present. The couple plans to reunite later in the series when the Kangaroos travel to Liverpool and Leeds.

Future Decisions and Career Goals

Despite his achievements, including leading the Penrith Panthers to four consecutive premierships, Cleary faces a significant decision regarding his future in the league. He is set to enter NRL free agency next year, as his contract with the Panthers expires at the end of 2027. “I’ve loved my time in Penrith, and it’s home to me,” he commented, though he remains open to exploring other opportunities.

Rumors have circulated about a potential move to the Super League, a prospect Cleary addressed with a mix of humor and recognition of the speculation that tends to resurface. “Every three months that article comes out,” he noted, indicating that such discussions often accompany his career.

As the year progresses, Cleary will need to weigh his options carefully. The entrance of the PNG Chiefs into the NRL in 2028 adds another layer of complexity; both he and his father face the possibility of significant career shifts at the same time. “It’s still such a long way away,” he said regarding potential opportunities with the Chiefs, emphasizing his focus on the present.

Throughout his career, Cleary has demonstrated an unwavering commitment to improvement, despite the pressures of public expectation. “I don’t ever feel like there’s a destination of ‘oh you’ve done it’,” he remarked, reflecting on the journey and challenges ahead. As he navigates both personal aspirations and professional commitments, Cleary remains focused on enjoying the journey and the experiences that lie ahead.