Smiles light up the faces of siblings Allee and Cooper Reynolds as music fills the air. The bond between them is evident, especially when their mother, Kristy Reynolds, observes the joy that singing and playing guitar bring to both. At just 16 years old, Allee is a dedicated performer at the Wollongong High School of the Performing Arts, while her younger brother, 15-year-old Cooper, navigates life with autism, level three on the spectrum. Though he may not express his feelings in words, his joyful reactions to music speak volumes.
As Allee prepares for her first of three performances in the upcoming Schools Spectacular, Cooper is right by her side. “He has really high anxiety, so songs help calm him. They’re very relaxing,” Kristy explained. Music serves as a profound connection for the siblings, allowing Cooper to experience joy and comfort that words often cannot convey.
The repetitive nature of songs makes them easier for Cooper to learn, enhancing their shared musical experiences. Allee recalls how Cooper enjoyed her rehearsals for the musical “Annie,” particularly when he would chime in with the iconic tune “Tomorrow.” “It’s so funny when I’m rehearsing and then I just hear ‘tomorrow, tomorrow’ in the background,” she said, laughing at the memory.
Music not only strengthens their connection but also plays a crucial role in managing Cooper’s anxiety. Kristy shared that, during music therapy sessions, they discovered Cooper possesses perfect pitch. “He just loves music. He engages with it at school and outside, but at home, it’s a great way for them to bond,” she noted. Allee often plays music for Cooper, especially at bedtime, creating a calming atmosphere that helps him unwind. “I play to him at night before he’s going to sleep, especially if he’s a bit anxious during the day. The level of relaxation is clear after he’s had a song,” she said.
Cooper’s loving nature shines through in their interactions. “Once you have his trust, he’ll be there for you for life,” Allee remarked. The musical bond they share brings out the best in both siblings, highlighting the power of connection through art.
The Schools Spectacular, which showcases over 5,500 students, is set to take place at the Qudos Bank Arena on November 28, 2023, with tickets still available. This event not only highlights talent but also underscores the importance of family and connection through shared experiences in music. Allee and Cooper’s story is a testament to the healing and unifying power of song, reminding us all of the profound impact that music can have on our lives.
