A resident of Albury-Wodonga, Bob Mathews, is reaching out to other men and their families in the region to gauge interest in forming a support group for those affected by prostate cancer. Diagnosed in 2025, Bob’s journey highlights the importance of early detection and the need for community support in coping with the emotional and physical challenges of cancer.
Throughout his life, Bob dedicated himself to hard work, family, and community involvement, running country supermarkets and engaging with local activities. Like many men, he never anticipated that prostate cancer would impact his life. “I did what I thought was right,” Bob reflected. “I saw my GP each year, kept an eye on my health, and had regular PSA tests that remained stable for years.”
Despite feeling healthy, Bob received shocking news in 2025 when his PSA levels began to rise. An MRI later confirmed the presence of prostate cancer, leading to a referral for surgery. Bob decided to stay local for his treatment to recover close to family and minimize travel for follow-up visits. Although the surgery went smoothly, doctors discovered that the cancer had spread further than anticipated, resulting in the removal of nerves responsible for erectile and orgasm function.
Facing Challenges and Finding Strength
The aftermath of surgery presented Bob with significant challenges, particularly regarding bladder control. “Blokes often think their sex life is the most important thing,” he said, reflecting on the emotional impact of his condition. “But it’s not. My partner and I are still working through this together.” He credits pelvic floor training and specialist physiotherapy with helping him regain strength and confidence. “Pads, patience, and persistence were part of the process,” he noted. “Things do improve if you stick with it and don’t lose heart.”
Now, twelve months after his surgery, Bob’s PSA results are positive, and no further treatment is required at this stage. He believes that volunteering and staying connected with others have been vital to his recovery. “It’s given me purpose and stopped me from feeling sorry for myself,” he shared.
Creating a Support Network
Motivated by his experiences, Bob is eager to establish a local prostate cancer support group in Albury-Wodonga. His aim is to create a space where men facing similar challenges can share their experiences and find comfort in community support. “My message to men is simple,” he stated. “Get tested every year and trust your medical team. And if you’re going through this, you don’t have to do it alone.”
Bob’s initiative not only seeks to foster a sense of community but also emphasizes the critical importance of regular health check-ups for early detection. As he embarks on this journey to support others, he exemplifies resilience and the power of shared experiences in overcoming life’s obstacles.
