9 November, 2025
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Social media is increasingly becoming a pivotal factor in family law disputes, with evidence from platforms like Instagram proving influential in court. Legal experts, including Jodylee Bartal, a principal solicitor at the Melbourne-based firm KHQ Lawyers, emphasize that online interactions can have significant consequences in property and parenting cases.

In one notable case, Bartal represented a woman involved in a property dispute where her former husband claimed his extensive wine collection was worth less than $10,000. In stark contrast, the woman estimated its value at over $100,000. The husband’s assertion crumbled when evidence from his Instagram account, dedicated to wine purchases, revealed a different narrative. The court utilized this information to issue subpoenas to both the wine storage facility and various auction houses, ultimately leading to the inclusion of screenshots of the Instagram posts as evidence.

Bartal advises clients to be mindful of their social media presence, stating, “Expect your partner will be looking at your social media, and expect your partner’s lawyer will be searching social media.” This caution stems from the potential repercussions of online behavior during legal proceedings.

Legal Implications of Social Media Usage

The Family Law Act mandates that revealing the identity of parties or witnesses involved in court proceedings is a criminal offense. This includes posting details on social media that may inadvertently disclose identities, even without using names.

In a striking 2013 case, a federal magistrate characterized a parenting dispute as “a form of tribal warfare.” The father faced scrutiny over his Facebook posts, which were deemed potentially criminal in nature. The magistrate highlighted the dual-edged nature of social media in litigation, stating, “While it can be used for good, often it is used as a weapon.” The court recognized the platform as a source of potentially incriminating evidence, with parties frequently exploring it for leverage against one another.

Bartal also recounted a case where a woman’s former partner liked and shared a meme titled “How to Kill Your Wife.” Given that the woman had an intervention order against him, this action was particularly alarming and contributed to the legal proceedings regarding property division. Courts can factor in the effects of family violence on a partner’s ability to contribute to shared assets, further complicating disputes.

Advice for Navigating Social Media During Disputes

Legal professionals, including Hayder Shkara, director of Justice Family Lawyers, have observed that social media posts serve as evidence in family law cases. He has encountered instances where individuals posted videos or images that raised questions about their financial circumstances, prompting investigations into their economic status. Shkara advises, “Before posting, assume that it will one day be read by a judge in court,” emphasizing the importance of discretion in online interactions.

In disputes related to property and finances, sharing information about expensive purchases or holidays can influence maintenance proceedings. Such posts may be interpreted as evidence of financial capability or could affect claims for financial support.

As discussions surrounding a potential ban on children under 16 using social media in Australia gain momentum, Shkara notes the challenges parents face in enforcing restrictions, particularly in separated households. He also anticipates emerging disputes over the authenticity of images, as the advent of artificial intelligence complicates verification in legal contexts.

Digital safety remains a crucial concern, especially in cases involving domestic violence. Bartal advises clients considering separation to scrutinize their devices for location sharing and to take steps to secure their privacy. This includes creating new email accounts and adjusting privacy settings on social media platforms.

In an era where online behavior can have far-reaching legal implications, individuals navigating family law disputes must remain vigilant about their social media activities. The intersection of technology and family law is evolving, and the stakes are high for those embroiled in these often contentious disputes.